Our Expectations vs Reality

We all do it. We all have pondered what it would be like to win the lotto. To have the perfect house. Spouse. Children. Complexion. But has it ever helped? If so you’ve read one too many Cosmo magazines. (Though one is too many imo) and think that wishful thinking is a synoman for goal…

How to combat the devil’s lies!

If you had to guess what one of the devil’s tool is…what would you guess? Ok…its an open book test. I gave it away in the title. He lies. Ha…I wonder if he can ever tell the truth? And he doesn’t just lie a little. And he tends to goes to the extreme, to the…

Should we go to our Gay Child’s Wedding?

If you have a child in the gay lifestyle should we go to their “wedding”? No…seriously do you know? I am asking as I find myself in the same predicament I did years ago. Dealing with should we go to our daughters same-sex wedding? When our daughter came out to us in 2005 I found…

Own It!

In the few interviews I’ve given they always ask what my secret is to getting past the death of our son. I always seem to come up with something brilliant…after the interview is over. So for the record my favorite piece of advise is to “own it”. But what does that look like? Well, as…