How to combat the devil’s lies!

If you had to guess what one of the devil’s tool is…what would you guess? Ok…its an open book test. I gave it away in the title. He lies. Ha…I wonder if he can ever tell the truth? And he doesn’t just lie a little. And he tends to goes to the extreme, to the…

I had my own issues to deal with

Am I ready to spill these intimate details of my life? Even in my book, in the chapter “Our back story” I didn’t make the attempt. All I said was “I had my own issues to deal with”. I wanted people to keep reading, without the interruption of the preverbal testimony of abuse. And too…

 Don’t look….clean ! 

“Mom…I can’t find it”…”don’t look…clean” she shouted from the kitchen. This did not help me. I needed Barbies left shoe…now. Oh sure I had other pairs but she was wearing a black evening dress. And so naturally she needed her black open toed heals…nothing else would do! And I wanted it to just appear…not work…

Factors of Homosexuality

nature vs nurture…right? We hear it everywhere in this world today regarding homosexuality. And yet if they were born this way…where’d they come from? As they’re born from a heterosexual act. Meaning the parents wouldn’t have the “needed gene”. And even if they did..it wouldn’t explain what is happening today with the ever increasing amount…

Our Guts and Homosexuality

Did you know that we have more critters inside of us than we do cells in our bodies? There is a lot of research on how we are whats inside our guts. Meaning, as one Doctor stated “Tell me your personality I can tell you what pathogens you have”. But how do we even begin to…

Should we go to our Gay Child’s Wedding?

If you have a child in the gay lifestyle should we go to their “wedding”? No…seriously do you know? I am asking as I find myself in the same predicament I did years ago. Dealing with should we go to our daughters same-sex wedding? When our daughter came out to us in 2005 I found…

Should We Go After The Homosexual?

Should we go after the Homosexual? Or should we sit back and “wait on the Lord” hoping they will come to their senses on their own? Here’s a valuable look to these questions asked by many who have gays in their life, that they want the best for. I’d like to share with you an…

What I learned about Mother’s Day after losing our son.

You might ask…how can not having as many gifts or cards help you get through Mother’s Day? Wouldn’t it be the hardest day of the year for you? All those memories and emotions. And seeing all the families at the restaurants with multiple generations of mothers with balloons and gifts, love and laughter. Yes…yes it…

Own It!

In the few interviews I’ve given they always ask what my secret is to getting past the death of our son. I always seem to come up with something brilliant…after the interview is over. So for the record my favorite piece of advise is to “own it”. But what does that look like? Well, as…

Motherhood is a Calling!

Are you a mom? Has it been easy? Have you wanted to run away? If you’re a mom you know it’s not easy. It is challenging, and more frustrating than one could ever have imagined. Yet the best thing that’s ever been said to me has been “you must be Leanne and Tim’s mom”. No…