Jezebel in the Modern Family

Jezebel. Who hasn’t heard of her? So many times I’d hear people say “she’s a Jezebel”. But do we even know who “she” is? And how do we combat this epidemic? I’ve also heard that we can’t have a Jezebel without an Ahab. So, what, or who is an Ahab? And how do they work…

Our Expectations vs Reality

We all do it. We all have pondered what it would be like to win the lotto. To have the perfect house. Spouse. Children. Complexion. But has it ever helped? If so you’ve read one too many Cosmo magazines. (Though one is too many imo) and think that wishful thinking is a synoman for goal…

I had my own issues to deal with

Am I ready to spill these intimate details of my life? Even in my book, in the chapter “Our back story” I didn’t make the attempt. All I said was “I had my own issues to deal with”. I wanted people to keep reading, without the interruption of the preverbal testimony of abuse. And too…

 Don’t look….clean ! 

“Mom…I can’t find it”…”don’t look…clean” she shouted from the kitchen. This did not help me. I needed Barbies left shoe…now. Oh sure I had other pairs but she was wearing a black evening dress. And so naturally she needed her black open toed heals…nothing else would do! And I wanted it to just appear…not work…

Factors of Homosexuality

nature vs nurture…right? We hear it everywhere in this world today regarding homosexuality. And yet if they were born this way…where’d they come from? As they’re born from a heterosexual act. Meaning the parents wouldn’t have the “needed gene”. And even if they did..it wouldn’t explain what is happening today with the ever increasing amount…

Our Guts and Homosexuality

Did you know that we have more critters inside of us than we do cells in our bodies? There is a lot of research on how we are whats inside our guts. Meaning, as one Doctor stated “Tell me your personality I can tell you what pathogens you have”. But how do we even begin to…

Motherhood is a Calling!

Are you a mom? Has it been easy? Have you wanted to run away? If you’re a mom you know it’s not easy. It is challenging, and more frustrating than one could ever have imagined. Yet the best thing that’s ever been said to me has been “you must be Leanne and Tim’s mom”. No…